Can We Guess If Your Love Is Healthy for You?

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By: Zoe Samuel

6 Min Quiz

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About This Quiz

They say the course of true love rarely runs smoothly, but those of us fortunate enough to find true love with a well-adjusted, warm, respectful person know that this is, happily, not true! True love can be smooth. Indeed, when it is done right, true love is as smooth as a delicious chocolate fondue. It is like settling into a nice warm bath that is always at the perfect temperature, with just the right amount of Epsom salts.

It can be easy to assume that true love is like the movies, always threatened by neuroses or outside forces. If the examples in your life were dysfunctional, you can wind up with no good role model for a relationship that is sustaining, wholesome, and yet still exciting. Such a relationship can even seem like an impossibility.

This can lead to people putting up with unhealthy behaviors in their partner, or accepting treatment that is not good enough. With love's blinkers on, however, it can be hard to realize what's going on and label it for what it is. That's why we've written this quiz to help you evaluate whether your relationship is healthy, whether it needs a little work, or whether it's merely sucking the life out of you. Let's get started!

How do you feel when you're just chilling at home with your partner?

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How often do the two of you spend special time together, like going on a date or just setting aside an hour to snuggle?

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If your partner has a problem with something you did, how do you hear about it?

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How often do you argue?

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What were the relationships like in the home where you grew up?

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Which movie do you think depicts a desirable relationship?

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How many of your close friends are happily married?

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What character flaw do you need to work on most?

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If you ask your partner nicely to do something small but slightly inconvenient, what are the odds that they will do it?

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When was the last time your boo did something nice but mundane for you, just because (e.g., fold all your laundry without asking, make dinner for both of you, etc)?

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How often does your partner speculate aloud about leaving you?

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Have the two of you gone through some things together?

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Do you absolutely trust your partner around your child or pet?

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Do you ever snoop through each other's phones?

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How do you feel about your partner's best friend's influence?

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What did your partner plan for your last birthday?

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You're going away on a trip. How does your boo show they care while you are gone?

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Do you get on with your partner's family?

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Has your partner ever flat-out called you names?

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Do you ever find yourself lying about your relationship to other people?

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Can you see the two of you in rocking chairs, aged 95 and still holding hands?

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Do you feel like your partner appreciates things about you that nobody else does?

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Have you ever been able to trust your boo with a secret?

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Has your boo ever told you to change something about yourself?

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Is there anything you're into that you learned specifically because of them?

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Do you let your partner have access to your financial information?

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How accurately can you order for each other in a restaurant?

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Do you know what their love language is?

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How often does your mind drift to what it would be like to just be single?

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What does your BFF think about your relationship?

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